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December 2007
Beth Burns Punzi ’82
by Jeffrey Stanley
Beth Burns Punzi ’82 was born in Brooklyn and
lived in Flatbush, in her mom’s childhood home, when she entered
third grade at BFS. Her sister Jacky Burns ’83 began
second grade the same year. Their parents, Alex and Maureen, had
found out about the school through attending the Brooklyn Meeting;
they were determined that their children would attend a school that
encouraged personal expression and creative problem-solving. “My
parents loved those aspects about BFS, since this kind of thinking
was discouraged when they were growing up. They wanted my
sister and me to be in an environment where our opinions were valued,
not dismissed.” She remembers the sacrifices her parents
made to send their two daughters to an independent school, and the
generous financial aid the school provided them.
Beth pushed herself academically, and was an active participant
in the school community, spearheading student activities, volunteering
with lower school children, and playing on sports teams. “I
was strongly influenced by the wonderful teachers at BFS,” she
said. “Really, it was an exceptional teaching and administrative
staff, and I owe a lot to the dedication and creativity so many
of them brought to their work every day.”
By the time Beth entered middle school the family had moved to
Boerum Hill to be closer to the school, and when Beth and her sister
were in the upper school their mother Maureen had become the school
nurse. Beth joined the Brooklyn Meeting when she turned 18,
and entered Haverford College, a Quaker institution outside Philadelphia
known as one of the country’s most outstanding liberal arts
colleges. She credits her admission to then-college counselor
Don Knies, her strong teacher recommendations, and letters of support
from members of the Brooklyn Meeting.
After graduating from Haverford with a BA in Political Science,
Beth immediately joined the Peace Corps and was sent to Morocco
to teach English in a rural high school. “This was a
wonderful experience for me,” she recalled. Upon returning
to New York she entered Baruch College’s Masters of Public Administration
program, while working as the program director for the Youth Services
Opportunities Project (YSOP), a Quaker-founded nonprofit that links
young people with community service experiences. YSOP, in which
Brooklyn Friends upper school students participate, encourages engaged
citizenship through direct service to homeless and hungry people.
While she also worked as a fundraiser for the National Audubon
Society, it was Beth’s YSOP experience that proved to be a
strong influence on her future career path. She graduated
Baruch in ’95, the same year her daughter Alaena was born. Beth
and her husband Peter settled in New Jersey, where a new challenge
awaited.
They soon had a son, Cole, who at the age of two was diagnosed
with a learning disability requiring speech therapy. “The
therapy was expensive but necessary, so I waited tables at night
to pay for it and still be home during the day with him and my daughter.” Today
Cole is doing very well, but experience of finding help for her
son had a residual impact on her. “Everyone in my small
town knows me as the mom who speaks up for children who learn differently,” she
said. “I am passionate about this because of my personal
experience but I am able to effectively channel my passion because
I was educated at a school dedicated to honoring each student’s
uniqueness and reaching that child’s inner light.”
Restaurant work also had another impact on Beth. “I
decided to take advantage of the experience and open my own business
as a personal chef and caterer.” She ran her catering
business for five years, and also had a second son, Nico. By
then she was ready to return to pursue her original career goal
in nonprofit management. With three children, she also wanted
to work near home and her kids’ schools. She found the perfect
job in 2006 when she was hired by Big Brothers Big Sisters of Monmouth
County, located just a few minutes from her house, as Director of
Fund Development. “This has been such a wonderful position
for me because I’m passionate about the cause and I believe
my skills are truly contributing to the organization’s growth.” Among
the programs for youth and families Big Brothers Big Sisters supports
is a drug counseling program for children under 13.
Today Beth and her sister remain members of Quaker Meetings in
their respective New Jersey communities, and both were married in
Quaker ceremonies. “We both incorporate Quaker values in our
every day life and our parenting,” she said. “We
take very seriously our commitment to honesty and integrity in all
that we pursue.” Beth has been particularly active
in helping the Shrewsbury Meeting raise funds to restore their historic
Meeting House.
The recipient of this year’s BFS Distinguished Alum Award for
her leadership and public service, Beth had a word of advice to
the current generation of BFS students: “Enjoy every
minute you have left at BFS and soak up all the opportunities to
explore your interests and pursue your ambitions. It gets a lot
harder after BFS to do this.”
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